Hi There!

Posted October 9, 2012 by F. Lewis Stark in Better Life
Flickr image by ibm4381

Have I mentioned that Griffin, my teenage autistic son, asks a ton of questions and is virtually a perpetual noise maker? If he’s not laughing maniacally, he’s asking the most random (and repetitive) questions imaginable. Rapid fire. A recent father-son outing was no exception.

Since my wife and daughter had some girlie-type plans for dinner a few months back, Griffin and I headed to Steak -n- Shake. I like going to Steak -n- Shake with the boy. Not only do I get to indulge in my favorite past time (eating) but I get to watch Griffin devour a Chili Mac. I swear, even at 15, more ends up on his face and shirt than in his belly.

As expected, Griffin was non-stop chatter the whole way there and was still going fast and furious when the cheerful waitress came to greet us at our table. He took a breath and stopped interrogating me long enough for the following conversation.

Waitress: “Hi guys. I’m Sherrie. I’ll be your waitress. (To Griffin) Oh my goodness, you are a cutie. What’s your name handsome?”

-Silence-

-Awkward Silence-

-Really Awkward Silence-

Me: “Griffin, she’s talking to you. Tell her your name.”

Griffin: (Barely Audible) “Griffin…”

Waitress: “Well, hi there Griffin. I’ll be back with some water and to take your order in a minute.”

Waiting until she was out of earshot (sort of) Griffin said to me;

“She talks a lot.”

He then resumed my interrogation right where he left off.

(Flickr image by ibm4381)

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F. Lewis Stark

F. Lewis Stark (aka Big Daddy) brings his unique view of fatherhood, and the world at large, to life in his books as well as on his frequently updated and hilarious blog. His tales (and cartoons) from the lighter side of raising a child with autism always spark laughter and discussion. By telling funny and off-beat stories from his life, Big Daddy shows that raising a kid with special needs is not all doom and gloom. To the contrary, it can be quite humorous and inspirational.